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December 2022

It’s Not Pee
Google “squirting” and once you get past the porn listings, you’ll get to a slew of articles with information about what percentage of female ejaculate…
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Zoe Kors
6 Ways to Have Radically Intimate Sex
Tantra for Muggles. We want intimacy and avoid sex. Or we fear intimacy and crave sex. There is a pervasive confusion about sex and intimacy. We use the…
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Zoe Kors
Take Me Out to the Ball Game
Embracing the Most Underrated Part of the Male Body I am a known champion of the scrotum. I’ve always been fascinated by the wrinkly-skinned sack that…
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Zoe Kors
Thirsty, A Parable
How Christopher Learned to Ignore His Body—Imagine Christopher, a small child who lives in Vermont. His family’s big blue house has a yellow door and…
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Zoe Kors

November 2022

The Tip of the Iceberg
Accessing the Enormity of Female Pleasure: I am not lying when I say that many of the lovers I’ve had (particularly when I was younger) were completely…
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Zoe Kors
Birds and Bees
The origin of the phrase, used in this way, is ambiguous. There are a few different potential sources including a 1909 publication called The Story of…
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Zoe Kors
Coming soon
The Intimacy Lab is a weekly newsletter that explores the intersection of inclusive, pleasure-based sex-ed, reproductive rights activism, and intimacy…
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Zoe Kors
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