You’ve managed to capture perfectly something I’ve thought about a lot, with many of the same conclusions. Here’s hoping this will stimulate some helpful conversations. ❤️
"Kink world"... Deep sad sigh...I lived in Kink central, San Francisco, for 31 years. While I did not participate in "kink" in any way, I did observe sorrowful people used as recepticles...and thrown away. I repectfully disagree. I respect your freedom of speech. Wendy
Sex is a lot about passion and spontaneity and non verbal communication. This here sounds painfully boring:
Consent is explicit. Boundaries are named. Power is negotiated. And when it’s over—when the blindfolds come off and the ropes are untied—there’s aftercare: the practice of tending to each other once the scene has ended.
Boredom is a choice. And if you have ongoing relationships with your partners, you can form your own language and rules to balance spontaneity and safety.
Love this ❤️
I've always believed that the way we treat one another after sex is the clearest signal of where we stand. Thanks for this.
So necessary...
You’ve managed to capture perfectly something I’ve thought about a lot, with many of the same conclusions. Here’s hoping this will stimulate some helpful conversations. ❤️
"Kink world"... Deep sad sigh...I lived in Kink central, San Francisco, for 31 years. While I did not participate in "kink" in any way, I did observe sorrowful people used as recepticles...and thrown away. I repectfully disagree. I respect your freedom of speech. Wendy
Sex is a lot about passion and spontaneity and non verbal communication. This here sounds painfully boring:
Consent is explicit. Boundaries are named. Power is negotiated. And when it’s over—when the blindfolds come off and the ropes are untied—there’s aftercare: the practice of tending to each other once the scene has ended.
Boredom is a choice. And if you have ongoing relationships with your partners, you can form your own language and rules to balance spontaneity and safety.